Qualification: The Subtext of Women

Here’s one of the many reasons why qualification is so important: subtext. In case you haven’t already brainwashed yourself to believe these things, here’s a list of what women really mean when they do agree to qualifying standards. It would behoove you to wire these into your thought processes and really believe them because they will allow you to close at a much higher rate and ultimately get more girls to become sexual.

Trigger Meaning

Adventurous - “I will sleep with a guy on the first night because my logic seems to shut off. I must really like this guy if I keep jumping through these hoops. Fun now = More fun later.”

Independent – “I will sleep with any guy I want as long as no one in my social circle knows about it. Only those who are independent like me will find out. I will also take it upon myself to sleep with a few guys on the side during commited relationships. Since I’m independent, I won’t tell anybody. And since I’m independent, I can decide whether guys ‘count’ or not. There are always guys on my list that you’ll never know about because they didn’t ‘count’”

Career-Oriented – “The guys that I work with are all losers —– I ‘stay focused’ so I’m not bothered by the parade of desperate cock. I will not think twice about staying up all night fucking on a work night if I really like the guy; I act like I love my job, but work is really not that important to me. The only time I hang out with my male co-workers is when I need some serious attention (haven’t had sex in months). I don’t know why I feel the need to do this, but it’s better than sitting at home again. This is the best night to fuck me, as long as you aren’t one of the losers from work, but most guys are too afraid to come talk to me in this situation. I’m so lonely. ”

Spontaneous – “I am willing to fuck a new guy I know little about if the context is right.”

Energetic – “I expect to have sex at least 3 times in one night.”

Health-Conscious – “I want my ass to look good when guys are spanking it from behind.”

Spicy – “I don’t just want one guy to keep me satisfied, I want to rotate several and see who is the best for my evolution. Commitment doesn’t really mean much in my world. I’m never fully committed. Casual relationships are cool.”

Fun – “There is nothing I won’t try behind closed doors.”

Smart – “The more logical I become, the more capable I am to get lost in emotion —– I will logically follow a story very intensely and even test a lot of guys (be a bitch), but as soon as I get hit with an attraction spike and he shows a stronger reality, I become easier than most girls. Most guys don’t make it past my first few tests and as a result don’t know how easy I really am.”

Overreactive – “Don’t ever call me this or I won’t talk to you. My buying temperature will go down. You can’t judge the emotional wave you’re riding into my pants. It doesn’t work that way. ”

Free-spirited – “I, like all women, am a lesbian. Find me an attractive girl and we can all throw down.”

Wild – “I will fuck you in a public bathroom or in the back of your car and not care if anybody hears me.”

Bad Girl – “I like to have sex. I’m glad somebody understands and can allow me to be a bad girl.”

Aggressive – “With the right wording, I will jump your bones.”

Outgoing – “I’m always looking for new sexual options.”

Qualifying is letting the girl know you like her for more than her looks, but it also plants some important seeds. Assuming you’re following a structure of attraction before qualifying, the qualifiers are going to have a little extra umphh to them, due to her enhanced arousal and willingness to move forward with you; you’ve been given the floor sexually to shape how she will act in her future interactions with you. You’re taking that attraction window and blowing it up into a bigger frame.

There is always a much deeper meaning in words with women. Feelings are more elaborate than simple words and they will read into what you’re really saying when you’ve connected with her in an attractive way; look below the surface in your interactions and realize how much power you have when you have created attraction. The real story isn’t something they even know exists, they feel it, but evolution has programmed it into her unconsciously. Once you learn their language of subtext, it’s like learning a foreign language, and you will see more windows of opportunity and sexual access. There is a world of language being passed back and forth that most average guys aren’t cognizant of. In case you didn’t know, women think about sex all day long. If you’ve read Tyler’s article on “The Secret Society,” these are words that can help you get into it—– assuming you’re getting attraction and your sub-communications stay congruent and strong.

~DerektheDomino

Like a Bolt of Lightning

Tuesday morning I was doing my daily motivation/success reading and I just felt compelled to pick up Unlimited Power by Tony Robbins. I bought the book this past summer and read through a lot of it, but wasn’t really ready to take it to heart at the time. I just wasn’t ready for it at that moment. I was looking for some sort of magic pill when I bought it, even though I wasn’t admitting it to myself. Mentally and emotionally I wasn’t ready to receive it. I had too many corrupt software files in my unconscious mind and limiting emotions that had to be written over and discarded. It’s amazing how much your frame can change in a span of 4-5 months with concerted effort.

Now I am starting to understand why he and other NLP practicioners are so effective. I started reading the book again this morning and this time I started to feel its power. Very profound. My unconscious has been hinting at it for a few weeks and bit by bit I was led back to the book this morning. I’m ready to undertake an extensive study of the field of NLP and apply it to my life. The amazing thing about it is the unlimited applications it has to modeling successful people in any calling of life. NLP is a method centered at controlling your mental and physiological patterns and behaviors to create a devastatingly effective way to be successful in all aspects of our lives, but the real power comes in learning how to model other people. Donald Trump, Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Master P, Michael Jordan, Eric Clapton, Bach, Jack Nicholson, etc. You can spend a lifetime examining people’s beliefs and basically install their software of thoughts and behaviors, rooted in communication, into your hardware (brain and nervous system).

It’s going to take me a significant amount of time to really put all of this together in an original way that I can apply to my life to make amazing waves; a constant work in progress I intend to first demonstrate to others. Demonstration is the ultimate way to convince people. I hope to be able to show it to other people that want to make something special of their lives ———– we are all special. We come from the same divine God-force. The same Being. There is literally nothing in this world you can’t be when you understand this and you should never look up or down to any other Being —- man or animal; we’re all cut from the same cloth, the same matter, the same energy, whether you believe in The Big Bang Theory, God, or Agnosticism. Don’t look outside yourself for help, look within. God and your reality all rest within yourself. You have the power to shape reality in every moment and you already are whether you know it or not. This is where you should be spending your time of examination and change ——- but hardwire these ways of thinking into your unconscious. It will become what you are, rather than something you do——– move away from conscious processes and be in the now, but make sure your unconscious is programmed correctly. This is the ultimate goal. This is where we can let go and let the sword strike where it must to win the contest.

There is a lot of debate about just letting go; Be in the now. Right? Yes. Very true, but also no. First, you do have everything you need already inside of you from the divine force you came from, but you must realize, we live in the physical world whether we like it or not and some hindrances need to be removed to allow this to happen. Negative experiences, beliefs, metaprograms, etc. You must also train your unconscious to respond in a successful way, otherwise it’s going to perform in a haphazard, ineffective way. Michael Jordan played completely in the moment, but he had to practice in a way that trained his body to perform those skills unconsciously. You can’t consciously think about these things as you perform. This will block you. Interference. Wire it into your unconscious and you’ll see real changes. This is where real transformations come from.

New Beginnings

This is my new blog. I’ve held off for as long as humanly possible, but I feel it is time to begin the blog documentation. Lots to discuss about life, spirituality, business, music, art, money, women, fun, travel, and abundance. The evolution of something I can’t completely grasp at the moment is at hand.